the Simpler Marriage Letter

Been married 53 years. I'm still learning how to love and be loved for the long term. Every week I write a little letter about what trying to follow Jesus in marriage looks like.

First NamePlease enter your First NamePlease enter a valid First Name

EmailPlease enter your EmailPlease enter a valid Email

If you are human, leave this blank.

You'll immediately get an email to open to confirm 😊

Cancel anytime. Yes your email stays private.

Married love got complicated while we weren’t looking.

And it can hurt. Let's make it simpler again so we can love and be loved for the long term.

I'm Gary Morland and that's Brenda. It's 50 years! But for the first 25 or so years there was a lot of head-butting and bad attitudes. I didn't realize I was creating and following a script of automatic negative responses to her. She did it with me too. We all can do it. Each week in this little email I share pieces of the NEW script we're learning to write.

First NamePlease enter your First NamePlease enter a valid First Name

EmailPlease enter your EmailPlease enter a valid Email

If you are human, leave this blank.

Your email stays safe and private with no spam. Unsubscribe anytime.

Readers say:

"My husband says that it's my TONE, more than what I say that gets him.... I am working on a new script. Thank you." --Glenda

"Gary, I can’t tell you how much these marriage emails have been used by God to answer my prayers to stop being irritated and impatient with my wife." --Richard

"Marriage is stinkin’ hard! However, these pieces of advice each week help so much." --Sheila